I’ve been in the dating business online and face to face for over 15 years and one thing that I have learned without a doubt is that men will be men and women will be women. With that thought let’s get started and begin our journey to love, sex and never ending romance. My strong advice is to go directly to http://www.japanesefriendfinder.com and sign up as a paid member, hey I never said finding love will be free. If you are expecting to find someone special please do expect to spend something because love has no price.

Be sure to upload a photo and please say that you are seeking someone for a serious relationship leading to marriage. Of course you have to go at your own pace but at least be serious or you will not get as many responses.

Make sure that the photo you upload is nice and happy with a big sexy smile, I know you may not be handsome but pretend you are. Take the time to upload as many photos as you have that show you as a nice cool guy with lots of friends. Don’t look like a loner who surfs for babes online unless you want to attract a long line of overweight only chicks. Over weight is fine if that’s your thing I just prefer someone who I think will live long enough to see me die.

Ok back to the basics, Join for 3 to 6 months to give yourself time to sift through the babes and believe me you will receive several letters and request from Japanese women living in Japan and countries around the world.

Here is a sample letter that I would like you to use and it would work for any website and any type of woman you are seeking….

” Hello my name is “………. ” I was looking through the profiles on Japanese Friend Finder and I came across yours just now. Something made me stop and smile so I read it again and again. I think we may have so many things in common so write me and tell me what you think when you read my profile. Either way I wish you find that special guy no matter what happens with our connection. It’s a lovely day so please enjoy it… Your new friend “…….”

Now copy the letter above and when you log into http://www.japanesefriendfinder.com I want you to find 100 women who are your type by age and beauty. I want you to send the same letter to each of them and expect to receive about 30 or 40 replies.

When you get the replies I want you to STOP and THINK before you reply. Remember that you said in the above letter that something made you stop and smile and read it again and again. GO BACK read her profile a few times until you have something in your head to focus on from her information listed..

Example…  I couldn’t stop wondering how you made that smile touch me as if you were here next to me.. I just cannot wait to see it in person someday. I’m not in a rush though, just thinking of what could be if you are really as nice as I think you may be. It was a pleasure to see your e-mail in my box so I tell you what, let’s keep in touch and when the time is right I promise to send you some cool photos of me and my family.  If you like you can send me some of your photos from Japan, that would be sweet. Talk later..Your cool new friend “……………”